Rachel Nipp
A promise ring makes a beautiful, romantic statement, especially on Valentine’s Day. A promise ring can serve many purposes, whether it’s a step towards “I Do” or a symbol of your love where it’s at right now. Show them how committed you are to the relationship — learn more about promise rings below!
What is a Promise Ring?
A promise ring is typically given from one person in a relationship to their partner to symbolize commitment. Unlike an engagement ring, a promise ring does not necessarily mean marriage is on the horizon. Instead, the implied “promise” could mean anything: a promise to love each other, a promise to get engaged when the time is right, or any other promise that fits in your relationship.
You may give a promise ring because you’re saving up for a wedding or waiting to complete certain milestones before getting engaged, like earning a degree or making a big move. The ring can also serve as a grand gesture to show them how much you care.
Did You Know? The tradition of promise rings goes way back in history, perhaps being most famously tied to posy rings, which represented special messages between lovers in medieval times. Pre-engagement rings, another term for promise rings, became popular in the 1970s.
Popular Promise Ring Styles
Promise rings come in all shapes and sizes, just like your love. There are many different styles to choose from, so you can find the one that speaks to your unique relationship. Here are some of the most popular promise ring styles we recommend:
- Stackable Promise Rings
- Pavé Promise Rings
- Vintage Promise Rings
- Swirl Promise Rings
- Symbolic Promise Rings
- Choose-Your-Gemstone Promise Rings
Did You Know? There’s no standard finger you have to wear a promise ring on, but many opt for the traditional ring finger (the fourth finger on your left hand). If you start wearing an engagement ring later, you can stack it on the same finger as your promise ring or move your promise ring to your right hand.
How to Choose a Promise Ring
Loving the idea of a promise ring? We do too! Here are a few of our favorite promise rings to get you started.
For the Sweetheart: Heart Promise Rings
Are they a sucker for love with a big heart? Anyone who loves sentimental symbols is going to adore a heart-shaped promise ring. The pop of color from the gemstone heart only adds to the sweetness and charm of the ring. Try a toi et moi ring — “toi et moi” is a French phrase that means “you and me” — or one with a classic red ruby heart.
For the Sparkle-Lover: Diamond Promise Rings
Do they appreciate the finer things in life? Get them a diamond promise ring that sparkles, shines, and goes with everything in their wardrobe. We recommend an infinity ring that symbolizes your everlasting love, a classic ring with a stunning white sapphire center surrounded by dazzling diamonds, or a modern diamond ring with three stones that represent your past, present, and future together.
- Amorette Diamond Infinity Ring in Sterling Silver
- Paige White Sapphire and Diamond Ring in Sterling Silver
- Terzetto Three-Stone Diamond Ring
For the True Romantic: Unique Gemstone Rings
If they have a flair for vintage-inspired or Art Deco designs, we suggest a colorful gemstone ring that stands out from the crowd. They’re going to love that you found a ring that suits their unique style. We recommend this cultured freshwater pearl ring featuring a half-halo of natural diamonds, or this gorgeous pear-shaped east-west natural ruby ring.
Did You Know? You can get your promise ring engraved with a meaningful message to make it even more special. Some options include your anniversary date, initial, or special quote that represents your relationship.
How to Present the Promise Ring
You don’t need to get down on one knee to give your love a promise ring — we actually suggest a different approach so there isn’t any confusion that you’re proposing. There are many ways to make your gift special, though. Plan a romantic Valentine’s Day dinner and share the ring along with a handwritten letter, pair the ring with fancy flowers and delicious chocolates, or wait until the moment just feels right. They’re going to love it — we promise.
If you need help finding the perfect promise ring, Valentine’s Day jewelry, or anything else, visit a store or chat online with one of our expert jewelry consultants. We love being a part of all your special moments!
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Editor’s Note: This post was originally published December 2015 and has been updated for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Rachel Nipp
Anna Gionet