Fun Ways to Ask

• Take her on a picnic – bring fruit, cheese, crackers and champagne and an iPod docking station to play romantic music and set the scene. Hand her a napkin with a napkin ring around it. But it won’t be a napkin ring – it’ll be an engagement ring!

• If it’s Christmastime, get an ornament engraved with the proposal on and hang it on the tree for her to find on Christmas morning.

• Go to your favorite restaurant and write your proposal on the ‘Specials’ board.

• Cut a hole in a Cracker Jack box, replacing the prize with the engagement ring .

• Fill up a small glass bowl with a bunch of reasons why you love her. Underneath it all she’ll find the diamond.

• Bring her back to the place where you first met. Then hand her a red rose or other flower with the ring buried within it.

• Display a cake in the window of her favorite bakery. Have it topped with the ring and inscribed with a romantic message.

• Send her on a treasure hunt with clues leading to a special place where she’ll find your ring.

• While she’s sleeping, slip the engagement ring on her finger.

• Hide the ring in a box of assorted chocolates.

• Make the ring her game piece during a game of Scrabble or Monopoly.

• Spell out “Will you marry me?” with stones or flowers at the park or with seashells or sand at the beach.

• Use the ring to hold together a small bunch of her favorite flowers.

• Memorize a French poem. Then recite it to her at a French restaurant as you offer the ring. Or take the poem/restaurant approach in Italian, Spanish or another foreign language.

• Rent advertising space at your favorite movie theatre. Before the movie starts, your proposal will be on screen.

• Rent a knight costume and white horse. Ride up and offer to be her prince .

• Attend karaoke night at a local bar. Sing “your song” and then propose before you leave the stage .

• Commission an artist to paint her portrait, adding the engagement ring to her finger before your present it to her.• Have a plane sky-write your proposal the day of a family picnic or other outdoor event.

• Attend a sporting event. Have your proposal light up on the scoreboard.

• Create a personal web page bearing your proposal.

• During dinner at your favorite spot, have the wait staff offer her ring as an option on the dessert tray.

• Take her out for Chinese food. Have the waiter or waitress give her a special fortune cookie with your proposal in it.

• Hire a magician to entertain you and make the ring mysteriously appear.

• Take her on a hot-air balloon ride. As you glide over a certain spot she’ll see your proposal spelled out in rocks from way up high.

• Make her a simple dinner and spell out a proposal with alphabet SpaghettiOs.

• Hide the ring in one of her winter gloves. (Assuming it’s glove weather!).

• Cook her dinner, and serve the ring as dessert.

• Put the ring in a seashell, presenting it to her on the beach.

• Hire a professional. Many companies now offer the services of a wedding proposal planner, who will work with you to devise a custom-made proposal for your girlfriend.

 

How to pop the question

Setting the scene for your proposal