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Like the bride’s honor attendant, the Best Man serves as the groom’s primary source of assistance and moral support during one of the most exciting times of his life. This attendant is usually the groom’s best friend or a close relative such as his brother or father. In less traditional weddings, the Best Man may even be a close female relative or friend. It’s the “best” part that counts!

 

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Traditional Duties


  • Plans and hosts the bachelor's party
  • Gives a gift to the groom
  • Provides for own wedding attire
  • Briefs the ushers on any special seating arrangements
  • Keeps the wedding ring if there is no ring bearer
  • Brings marriage license to the ceremony
  • Helps groom prepare for wedding
  • Makes sure that the couple's honeymoon luggage is ready
  • Double checks to be sure all honeymoon arrangements such as reservations, tickets and passports are in order
  • Accompanies the groom to the ceremony
  • Serves as a formal witness and signs the marriage license
  • Sees that the officiant and other vendors receive their fees
  • Offers the first toast to the newlyweds
  • Usually dances with female members of the bridal party as well as the mothers of the bride and groom
  • Prepares (and usually decorates!) the get-away transportation
  • Gives a wedding gift to the newlyweds
  • Sees that all gifts brought to the reception are delivered to the newlyweds' home

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Best Toast


A wedding toast can be a loving tribute to a great couple. Or, it can be a rambling monologue that goes on … and on … and on. Here are some tips to make sure that your toast is one of the highlights of the reception!
  • Write down what you're going to say. It'll help organize your thoughts and you can give a copy to the bride and groom as a keepsake.
  • Do not read your toast! Either memorize it, or write down bullet points on note cards.
  • Practice your toast "out loud" ahead of time. This will not only help you memorize your toast, it'll also give you an idea of how long it is.
  • Stick to a few main points.
  • Be brief! Two to five minutes is more than enough time to make your points.
  • Begin by introducing yourself and explaining your relationship to the newlyweds.
  • Speak slowly and loudly enough to be heard throughout the room. Use a microphone if necessary.
  • This is a celebration, so keep your toast light and avoid negative (even in jest!) or risqué comments.
  • Don't drink too much! You don't want to be remembered for slurring your words.
  • Thank the reception hosts (whether the parents or the newlyweds) for inviting everyone to share in this exciting event.
  • Avoid mentioning people who the other guests might not know, or be sure to describe their relationship to the bridal couple.
  • Use humorous or touching memories of the bride and/or groom to back your comments.
  • End with your congratulations to the newlyweds!

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